Flirting Tips for Guys

What NOT To Do
Here are things to definitely avoid when you are flirting

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dont touch her like that
gurls dont like to be manhandled... its when u gently put ur hand on her arm, ...
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A couple of tips for guys
Ok im 12 but i know some stuff that will help. . Dont EVER EVER EVER cheat ...
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Absolutely the best thing...
The best thing a male can wear is a button-up shirt with about the 1st two ...
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all you want is sex
girls dont like it if you come up to them on thre first date and ask do yu want ...
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Always be Honest
Always be honest...If a girl finds out from a friend that you are going to dump ...
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always try to listen
a smart thing to do is to look at her when she is talking...at least give ur ...
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Ask her (coming from a girl)
When ever your at a school dance or something and she's all alone, go up to her ...
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Ask her a question
Just ask her a question like how was your ...
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ask her out yourself
don't have ur friends ask her out for u. u need to be brave. girls don't like ...
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ask one of your friends who is a girl what girls like
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ask simple questions
start out by asking simple questions such as "how was your day" and "how was ...
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Avoid Chapped Lips
If you are having a school dance or somthing that has snowball dancing in it, ...
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BE A GENTLEMAN!!
the first rule to gettin a girl's attention is being a gentleman. open the door ...
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Be Funny, But not tooooo Funny
Girls like guys who who can easily make them laugh, but if you constantly keep ...
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Be independent
Guys it's wonderful to hang out with the girl you like but don't seem needy or ...
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Be Lovable (GUYS)
when you are at the movies see a scray movie....then she will want to cuddle ...
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be mysterious
its simple really...talk to her..just not too much and don't talk much about ...
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Be nice to her friends!!!!! (For the GUYS)
even, If you hate her friends still be nice to them, like at a dance if they ...
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be organaized
be organaized dont start them and fell or show week seaptom she will lose ...
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Be sweet
Be sweet with her and always show her that you care on what's going on, ( that ...
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be yourself
One of the biggest lies in the world is that girls want guys to be themselves, ...
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Be-Friend Her Abit
Ok, their is one key tip. You don't want to go to far with this or you will ...
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befriend her BESTFRIEND
wen u befriend her bestfriend dont befriend her too much or she might start to ...
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boobie touch
im a girl, take it from me when i meet a guy for the first time I love dah ...
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Brush your teeth
Girls do not appreciate bad breath. If u have a problem with your breath always ...
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Can the Potty mouth!
Cussing and swearing do not make you sound like a man. Im a girl and take it ...
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Caress her face
Find a way to just brush her face, like if her hair is on her cheek or ...
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Clingyness
Now, Guys needs space aswell as Girls do. I,m a girl and in a happy ...
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Compliments
Something I've encountered occasionally is guys who compliment a LOT. While ...
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creativity messages
if u wanna snd msg to ur gal frnd...don,t snd forward msgs juz snd it by ur ...
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Do NOT
do not ever...ever... ever call her a drunken slut. it sounds like a no brainer ...
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DO NOT BE A PERVERT! (THIS IS COMING FROM A GIRL!!)
This is coming from a girl, and sorry guys, if there's one thing that girls ...
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Do Not Knock on Head
Guys, DO NOT go by the girl you like, or ANY girl and knock on their head like ...
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Do not remain heavy lipped
Sprinkling words is caring,expressing & mingling.speak to ur girl comfortably ...
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Does she like you? (from a girl)
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Don't
DON,T stare at her too much. She{I don,t know about her but in my case} may ...
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Don't ask repetative question again
If you r with good relationship with her, Don,t ask her repetative question ...
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Don't Bail Out On A Girl!
Don't ask a girl out or something and then, a day later say you can't! Tell her ...
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Don't bail! (coming for a girl)
Don't ask a girl to a dance then say you can't go a day or to later cause then ...
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Don't be afraid to be a dork
when she is out in the open, and you feel like making her laugh, or just when ...
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Don't Be Agressive
i'm a girl so i should know girls hate it when guys r agressive (srry if i ...
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DON'T BE HAIRY!!!!!!
Don't have gross body hair. you know what i'm talking about; the chest, back, ...
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Don't be macho
They hate "mahco" dudes. Also, try and pat her boobs, she'll think ur ...
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Don't be Nervous! (Coming from a girl!)
Don't be nervous about asking her to dance or asking her to go out with you. If ...
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Don't Fake Your Personality
I hate it when a guy tries to impress u by changing everythinbg about himself ...
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Don't Get In her Business
if she is going out somewhere dont ask her all these quesitions about it. just ...
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DON'T GRAB HER AND KISS HER
If you grab her and kiss you she'll think you are overagressive. i did this ...
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don't grab her butt
Don't ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, grab her butt unless she tells you to ...
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Don't Harass Her
If you ask her out or sumthing and she says no don't ask her again in a cople ...
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Don't Insult Her
Don't insult her or ridicule her in front of others... be NICE! (Coming from a ...
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Don't Insult Her
Don't drag on to long and if you wanna say something to insult her in any way ...
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Don't leave them out
Make sure you invite your significant other to hang out with you and your ...
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Don't Lie
Be yourself and don't lie. Girls have a tendancy of finding out a lot about you ...
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DON'T LIE
Always be honest and never ever ever lie to your ...
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Don't listen to a majority of these people.
Okay, here's the thing. Read through some of these tips. Everybody that wrote ...
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Don't liston to other peoples opinions!
There is no rule book for dating/flirting, if someone truely likes you then ...
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Don't Mention another Girl
Never mention another girl in front of her. If she really loves you she ...
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Don't Mention Another Girl
If you like the girl, make sure you don't mention another girl. Me, being a ...
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Don't Mess With Her Head
Just Don't! Alot of times playing head gams will just lead to confusion. She ...
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Don't not flirt with more than 1 girl at a time
If you flirt with her but she doesn't talk to you, don't flirt with another ...
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don't roll over and play dead.
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Don't Rush
Look guys, tonight was the first night I was able to be with my girlfriend. Be ...
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Don't say it when you don't mean it!
I hate it when a guy tells me they love me then a couple of days later break ...
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don't talk or joke too much
Don't talk too much especially if you speak multiple languages which ...
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Don't Tease
Girls like to be playfull, true. But don't go back to 2nd grade. Smile be ...
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DON'T TOUCH HER BOOBS OR BUTT!!
That was kind of self explainitory... from a girl... ...
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Don't try too hard
If you try to hard to flirt with a girl you'll end up making an idiot out of ...
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Don't Use Insulting Names
DO not call a girl by "Babe" or "Chick". Most of them find it very insulting. ...
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done talk about poop
when umakeout don't say u have to poop she will think u don't like it. Trust ...
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Dont always go to her
if you always go to your girlfriend, let her come to you or let her hug you ...
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Dont Answer the Phone if it is another girl
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Dont argue
Dont argue when she is ...
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Dont ask about a girl to another
DONT ask about a girl to your love since it will break the relation between you ...
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dont be a coward
If a girl is walking with you dont just look away talk to her about ...
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Dont be a perv ( coming from a guy)
Ya don,t be a perv cause one time I was talkin to this girl I really like ...
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Dont be to much of a friend....
Guys...I know this may sound strange, but you cannot get to friendly with a ...
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dont call her to much
once a night is nice unless she makes it clear she wantsto talk more.MOst girls ...
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Dont do this
never ever ever take ur pants off on the first date but shirts are ...
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DONT FORGET!!!
When a girl (you like) asks you if your going to the dance say yes IF you know ...
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Dont have stained clothes or greasy hair
Take showers! girls dont like it when you aren't clean. Have clean hair and ...
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DONT HIT HER
girls don't dont like to be ...
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dont leave it too late (from a guy)
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dont listen to the obviously bad tips
dont listen to most of these crazy tips, my gf broke up with me cause i ...
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Dont listen to these people
Everyone is different and none of these tips can be applied to all the same ...
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dont listen to these ppl
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dont mention other girls!!!
bad bad bad idea!!! dont ever do this ever ...
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dont over do things
don't make to many presents and gifts and don't be over do it with your act she ...
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dont play hard to get
firstly most nice girls wont chase you, and once the chace is over there's a ...
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Dont set your heart on her
dont set your heart on her try all them things you have read but in the end ...
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Dont talk bout another girl wit her
If u do shell thnk u like the other girl ...
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dont turst a girl the first time
dont listin to yes or no till after a ...
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DONT WORRY ABOUT ACNE!!!!!
IF YOU HAVE ACNE DONT WORRY ABOUT IT. If they dont like you for just that ...
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Dress Sexy
I like it when guys groom themselves, like shave their chest and back. I love ...
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Eye contact
When talking to her, always give her eye ...
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Eyeballing
Never, I repeat EVER, check out another guy. If a guy even does this once on a ...
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flirting out girls
whenever initiating a conversation with a girl be confident use proper ...
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Flirting with guys
every girl loves a lad who can make them lauagh so when flirting with a girl ...
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getting her to like you
if your locker is next to your when your getting a book "acidently brush her ...
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guys, dont be perverts
girls hate i when You are perverted, just ...
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Hand Holding
When your on a date or really anywhere hold the girls hand. She loves it and ...
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help
talk to her and never be afraid ok so just go were she is and say hi and talk 2 ...
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Hold her
Just put your hands on her hip from behind, Or go one step further and kiss her ...
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hold her hand
whenever you hold her hand always know that you hold her heart..(if she doesn't ...
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honesty
be honest if not your screwed my ...
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how to entertain her
play the fool but not too much to bore her. tickle and touch her but dont make ...
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How to know when a regular kiss is about to be a tongue kiss
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How to Look
When talking to her, eye contact, yes, it's essencial, but quick glances at ...
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how to show you are interested
point your body in her direction to show you are ...
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How to tell if she is flirting
Make he laugh a lot, but dont only do stupid things. When she laughs about a ...
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how to tell if she is interested
Look her in the eye, but not to long, if she keeps the stare, she likes you, or ...
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hugging girls
boys, some girls (like me)are sometimes to afraid to hug you because they are ...
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I'm a girl so I know what I'm talking about!
Haha. I hate when guys send mixed signals...if you like her, tell her! And ...
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if a girl has a boyfriend
if a girl has a boyfriend that dosent mean she dont like u just try to find out ...
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if a girl is intrested she will.......
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IF she hears you
If your in a place with alot of people and everyone is talkin kind of loud and ...
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If you love her, go for it!!
If you love the girl, go for it, because that might be the only chance you get ...
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Interaction
try to interact with her more, don,t just sit there and play computers ...
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It is good to flirt!!!
U can flirt with another girl as long as ur girlfriend dosnt ...
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Just be yourself
Just be yourself and stay clean.confidence,open up to miss beuty ya know.start ...
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Kiss her neck, hug her
Come from behind her and hug her and kiss her on the neck!!! girls love that ...
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Kissing
If ur nerveous Kissing a girl just go somewhere quiet first of all cause ...
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KISSING
when u first date her just hug her when your goin home . a few dates into your ...
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Loan Payday
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Look In her Eyes
When telling a girl you love her look into her eyes and give her a stare that ...
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Look into her eyes as if u can see into her soul
Nothing turns a gal on than ur eyes, make sure u keep gud eye contacts but make ...
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love
fellas, try your best not to like a girl too much if you don't even go with ...
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Love Tapping
When a girl shoves you a little bit, not a whole lot just a little she is ...
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Make her feel like you can protect her
make her feel safe and thet you able to protect her, like if she is in a ...
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Make her feel unique
Give her flowers, a teddy bear, chocolates or something, but be sure you are ...
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make her laugh
when you are face to face talking with each other eassily and if you really ...
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making sure
if you were friends w/ her before loved her, never get on her nerves about ...
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Masks/be you
Don,t wear a mask. I personally hate it when i find out the guy is wearing a ...
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Never break a promise you made to her !!!!
Before promising something,think if you can make that promise,if you do dont ...
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Never Breathe towards her face
If your breathe isnt fresh or nethin like that.. Its the biggest turn ...
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Never Chase Them
NEVER TRY TO CHASE A GIRL ...BECAUSE NORMALLY IT IS SEEN THAT BOYS USE TO ...
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Never ever do this!
Okay guys never go 2 anther girls bday party and dont tell ur girlfriend where ...
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Never talk about her friends
if her friends are jerks and are always mean to u ignore them but never ...
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No Uhhhhh Yeahs...
Do NOT say uhh....yeah when she is trying to talk to you, or complements you. ...
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No Whispering!
Never let a girl see you whispering to someone else, occasionally looking at ...
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Over attitude
Dont show extra attitude,make her feel that u r intrested in talking to her,try ...
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PERVERTS/STALKERS
NEVER EVER EVER EVER IN A MILLION YEARS BE A PERERT OR STALK HER JUST WEN U ...
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playing
hey dont get played by a girl if she makes up excuses or says yes to a movie ...
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Playy with her hair!
I'm a girl, and personaly, I love it when my guy plays with my hair! He ...
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Scream like an idiot
Girls dont love dumbasses and crazyasses buh atleast once in ur date walk pass ...
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screw is
woman r so complex i wish i was gay ...
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she checked you out
if the one you like looks at you multiple times, it's proly good. so talk to ...
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show out
when you are around the person you like don't show, such as trying to shame ...
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smell good!
Dont go on a date or let alon talk to a girl if u dont smell good cuz then shes ...
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stroke girls toes
when ur are alone, sitting on a a couch, stroke her toes. But only the little ...
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suck her lips off!
girls like knee melting ...
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take it easy
if you to do anything from as simple as holding hands to as complex as having ...
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Take Time
Look most girls first want to develop a strong relationship and if its young, ...
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talk about her
i usually don't know what to talk about so i ask her things like what she likes ...
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Talk with others IN FRONT OF HER
if you get a call on your phone, or come across anyone you know while on a ...
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Tease
Just don't go ...
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Teasing is good
Teasing is the playful way to say "hey I like you" but not actually saying it. ...
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tell her how much you love her
tell her how you feel about her,make her feel happy at good and bad times no ...
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tell some jokes
make her laugh but not to much ask her about herself like fav colors.fav ...
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The Best Way
When you start dating dont go posting on social networks that you,re in a ...
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there's a lot of really bad advice on here
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these people know nothing...
don't trust them they obviuosly spend most their time on the net they probaly ...
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think
always think befor sayining enyting!! u cant take enyting back if its been sed ...
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Too Friendly
I'm a girl. I say this because this tip seems to go against everything else on ...
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touching.
guys, girls don,t like it when you physically touch them, ESPECIALLY if you two ...
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turning her on
women love men with lose pants and a tight T-shirt trust me I know. I was at ...
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understand were she comes from
At times you might feel that girls are from another world and that you can't ...
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understand where she comes from
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Wait until the right moment
IF you want to ask a girl out wait until the right moment like when you are ...
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Watch were ur looking (from a broken harted guy)
ok what NOT to do is dont look at ur feet or her feet when talking to her ...
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what to wear
DON'T WEAR LIGHT BLUE! it's almost the worst color to wear if our crushing on a ...
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When to ask about sex
(comming from a girl) dont just come out and ask them "heyy wanna have sex." ...
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While making out:
while making out dont grasp the hair on the back of their head your "playtime" ...
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wink at her
When ur at the movies or even at school make sure she looks at you then give ...
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work out
girls love a strong guy that can carry there stuff to class. if your locker is ...
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work out!
work out a bit u dont have to have a six pack like me but if you do girls love ...
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You love her
It starts from when you first see her you know that it is ...
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Your in control
a good idea is to flirt with two girls.The one you want and another girl, if ...
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