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footsie totally works. Just out of the blue slip your leg around the person. ...
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!Eye Contact and Smile!
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'its getting cold'
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A tip for people who leave tips.
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ADDING TO HIS COMENT
hey if ur crush says something funny but weird to a geek in ur class. Say ...
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agggghh im totally n utterly confused!!
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Am I flirting?
Sometimes I feel like I'm flirting with a guy, but he's not getting the message ...
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An Innocent Glance
Look at the person that you are flirting with by looking at him/her(not ...
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ask about his first kiss
you say- we should be kissing right now! then u start making out like ...
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Ask for their name
Okay, this works for guys or girls, when meeting them, say. "Hey my name is ...
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ask-blush and look down
try asking for their e-mail or phone number, but, as you're asking blush and ...
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awesome advice
When your crush is talking to you ignore her and walk away if they really like ...
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BACK LOOKING
WHEN YOUR CRUSH WALKS PAST U GLANCE BACK AND TRY TO GET EYE CONTACET... ...
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Be Friendly with his Friends
Guy's/girls tend to like it when you are interested in getting to know their ...
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be his friend first......
Okay, first yuu go to get t know him. And bee his friend and just kin kinda ...
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be in group
sometimes, not always.........try to be engaged in some work and be in a ...
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Be sexy
try to be a little sexy! Just suck your gut in a little,pop your cheast out a ...
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Be your goofy self
If guys (or girls) don't like you silly and yourself...like I always say if ...
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Be Yourself
Probaly the most important thing is to act like yourself. Don't be someone ...
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be yourself
never try and be fake!! guys hate it. act naturally and if the guy doesn't like ...
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BLUSHING
if he blushes he likes ...
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body language
wen sittin nxt 2 ur crush make sure ur open 2 im face im n cross ur legs 2wards ...
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Bum touch
when standing or huging the person u lik try putting ur hand on 1 of her bum ...
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check it out !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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cleavage is the key!
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CONFIDENCE
If your not confident, you may as well have a sign over your head that says “IM ...
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conversation
this is for the girls if you see a guy in town at the mall or just around and ...
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Crush Locker
Add your Crush into your Crush Locker and then have Crush Locker anonymously ...
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DO DO DO be a ditz
Omg This Totally Works! Especially If U R A Blonde! But Even If U Arent ...
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do the boring act
this is really for anyone in school or out. If your crush is near act like you ...
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DON'T DON'T DON'T act dumb and be a HOE!
ok first of all.I,ve asked this to MANY of my guy friends, and this is to all ...
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Don't scare them
Don't ever get really close to the person's face and start staring at them. The ...
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Don't stare!!!
Never stare at a guy for kind of a long time, he will get nervous and stop ...
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Don´t Hide in a Crowd
It might be hard if you´re shy, but if you´re hiding with a bunch of your ...
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Draw the attention down
While you're talking to the guy you like, if you're wearing a low cut top, ...
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Dropping Something
This tip is different from the dropping a note one. This one, you could drop a ...
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Eat Carefully
Whatever you do, do not eat anything hot,chilli or spicy. It's bad enough, when ...
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eye contact
look at him for five sec's then look a way for three and the look back and ...
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Eye Contact.
Make eye contact with him/her and then quickly look away with a little smile on ...
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eye-mouth-eye
look at the person`s right eye, then their mouth, then their eye again..this ...
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Eyebrows and Forehead
This trick is clever in classrooms, so it is more ideal for teenagers! When ...
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Eyes and hair! For girls
If he's behind you, try this. Look at him over your shoulder for a few ...
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Eyes and Smile
If your crush is behind you turn around and get eye contact then turn back ...
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eyes and smiles
when your walking down the hall and you see your crush make eye contact then ...
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Flashing eyes
Ignore your crush o so delicatly Make eye contact and smile and keep talking ...
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Fling the sexy hair...
y for you girls who have bangs... talk to your honey and if you want the ...
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Flirt with a Friend
This doesn't mean to flirt with one of your friends but have your friend be ...
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Flirtin Tips...Long =)
The best i can say is be yourself. Bois dont lyke it if yoo act lyke sumone ...
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flirting
when you and whoever you like ahare that little awkward moment when you catch ...
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Flirting in private
When you are flirting in public you should never call your flirtee honey or ...
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footsies
footsies totally dont work...they think ur a freak if u rub up on them so dont ...
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Footsies!
When you are sitting by a boy you like get his attentin by gentling pushing ...
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For the shy guys/ girls
when u like a girl or boy but you are too shy to tell, there is another way. ...
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for the shy one's out there (long)
i have this crush for a girl in class. i am shy but she totally isn't. you ...
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friends could help
if u have a cool friend ask him to hook u up with ur crush it works 4 me ...
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Gazing
Females... It doesent hurt to acknowledge the one who you have feelings for. ...
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get him
if your in the playground or just out go around hugging all the boys just ...
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Getting Closer To Someone
If you have a friend that you really like and want to become more than ...
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Great trick to get closer
This is for school, so when a girl is sitting down and everyone is working and ...
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half smile
only smile w/ half of your mouth (w/o teeth showing) raise your eyebrows up and ...
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Hard to get never works
Never play hard to get it will just make them go away especially for girls but ...
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have fun
just have the best time. do worry too much about them liking you. just be ...
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head/forearm-to-shoulder(4 girls)
if ur standing nxt to him in like a group or wutever, act like ur really tired. ...
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hey all boys
ok boys girls like it when you wear cologne... they love the smell its ...
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how 2 tell if he likes u
if u c him staring at u alot and when he see's u talking to a guy and he don't ...
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how to dress for ur crush
where some sexy shorts and be extra flirty TRUST ME it ...
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HOW TO FLIRT, BASICS TO BAM!
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how to get her!
Look homies its easy to get a gurl if u jus stay cool,be yourself,and try to ...
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Hug Her !
Make sure you hug her (if she likes you) and hold on for a little and if you ...
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HUGE FLIRTING TECHNIQUE
Just be yourself...if you are yourself, then you are yourself more comfortable, ...
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hugs
look all sad and say," Man i really need a hug." most guys will offer quickly. ...
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Hugz & Kisses
First for the kisses please have soft lips (males and females) Nobody wants to ...
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Hugz!!
When a guy cums to hug u do not jump back espeacially if its ur flirt.anyways ...
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Hum a Song
Choose a few favorite songs and hum them occasionally when you're happy. People ...
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i'm not the master, but...
Sometimes just getting to know the person is good. Then when you think they are ...
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If they don't even know you exist?
Notice: This works best for people in school! First: They need to know your ...
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if you like a girl
hi my name is logan and im the person u need.ok if u like a girl tell her what ...
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Im a guy
Hey im a guy and ive had several girlfriends, and this is a tip for ...
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in the halls if u have school
when you see him smile and say hey if he notices you if he dosnt walk by him ...
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In the Movies
You are in the movies and your crush is there. Try to get the seat next to him ...
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In-class flirting
This really only works if you are already friends. Sit next to them or with in ...
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I´m not pretty enough to flirt
Flirting is not about pretty or handsome. It´s about the person being a ton of ...
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I´m Shy!
Sure, you´re shy. Everyone is shy. The person you´re flirting with is probably ...
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I´m too Nervous
Everyone is nervous when they first start flirting. They don´t want to look ...
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Join In
Find something they like (track and field, vollyball) and show an interest. ...
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Joking around (not too serious)
when youre with your crush, joke around, but not too seriously. For example, ...
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KISS!
when the right time has come lean in close ...
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Laugh!
Laught at his jokes even if they are not that funny. Its hard for some people ...
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Laugh!
When he tells you a joke, laugh a little and say "you're funny". Don't over ...
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Listen & compliment
If you listen to what they have to say they'll love you for it. And give good ...
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little hints
If the guy Likes you you will know straight away. oyu will notice him looking ...
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Look ,Talk to friends and look again!
when ever your in class look at him and keep on working in your class ass. or ...
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Look a lot!
When you're talking to your crush look at him a lot, and if there's someone ...
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Look and Blush
If you happen to be looking at your crush and he makes eye contact with you, ...
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Look at him
If you really reallyyyy like this boy and he does not no u r even there play ...
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Look away
If your crush is looking at you and you catch him look at him for a second then ...
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Look for signs
look if he is staring at you if he does make a joke for example " since your ...
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look in the eyes
always smile and look in the eyes. it always works and best ...
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Make Body Contact
Touch his arm and look in his eyes at the same time - he'll be tempted to look ...
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make him jealous
make him slightly jealous with one of your other guy friends, but not too ...
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making eye contacied
look deep into his eyes and if u look at eachother 4 more that 10 sec then ...
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Maturity
Always show a sense of maturity when you're around your crush. some guys tend ...
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meeting
guys always hug the girls and give them a nice little spin arround in ur arms, ...
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memories
After you've had a crush on someone and you've shared really "intamint" or cute ...
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Messing Around
I,m really good friends with this guy and I kinda like him and when he was ...
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Movie scenes
if a guy likes you they will probably talk about a romantic movie. like before ...
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muss up your hair/wet your lips
if you are a guy, subtlely (not too often or exaggerated) muss up your hair ...
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never leave him alone
if u need to go somewhere tell him make sure u tell him if not he is going to ...
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nickname
give your crush a nickname. they like the fact that you take time to think ...
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no akward silences!
Try for there not to be any akward silences. It makes you say really stupid ...
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No NO NO Ditz
Never act like a ditz when you're around a guy. It's dumb, sounds fake, and ...
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NOT SO OBVIOUS!!!!
tell her something that will lead to a conversation about love,and then tell ...
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note
write a note that says i love you and the name of your crush and give it to a ...
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on the phone
ask them what kind of gurls he likes! then joke bout if he to pick between you ...
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Play Fight
If your crush is flirting with you and "teasing". come back with the comment of ...
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play HArd to get
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play it off
juz pretnd that your hanging out with your best friend. if you act comfortable ...
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pretend cute wrestling.
when your around your crush, find something to tease them about, when they ...
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questions
ask little questions, and not obvious, usual ones like "what are your hobbies" ...
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Quirky Connection
After talking with this person, try to find out something really quirky, weird, ...
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read this
stop being just another barbie!if you want your crush to see you seriously ...
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Rest your 'tired' legs
I do this one all the time w/ my crush. (IMPORTANT: You need to be sure you ...
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ROCK PAPER SCISSORS
ok this is fun. might be what you did when you was young but still really good ...
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Romantic poetic lines
Try to make up your own unique words by making it rhyme with cute things etc. ...
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say 'HI' when you see him.
When you walk by your crush just wave and smile and say hi. He will tak alot of ...
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Secret Lover
write your crush a note that says you like him, but dont write doen who it is ...
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sencerity AND playfulness
ok well when you talk to your crush(or friend that you dont think of as a ...
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sevens
dont be ...
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sexy look
when you talk to your crush lock eyes for 5 seconds then bite your lip and look ...
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Sexy Tips
ALWAYS SHAVE YOUR LEGS AND ALWAYS WEAR OUR BRA. Those are two signs of maturity ...
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shall we dance
if its a school dance like hire like somebody the oppisite sex as u to break up ...
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show your stuff
When Your With Ur Crush, Show Lots Of Curves. But Dont Go ...
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skin skin skin
im not saying show too much skin. but if a guy you like sits behind you in ...
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Smile!!
Probably the MOST important thing to do when you flirt is to smile. Sincerely. ...
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Some tips for guys by girls
okay most girls dont like cheesy pickup lines, we usually, basicly always like ...
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Staring contest. Do It!!
If your talking and fooling around with him say, lets have a staring contest. ...
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Stay a bit silent
When you are around your crush then try not to kill the moment. If you don't ...
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Sweet Drink
If you are out on a date at a restaurant, get a root beer flaot or a sweet ...
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TALK!
Talk to him/her a lot! Then they will talk to you more too. You could get ...
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TALK!!!
You have to talk! Otherwise your crush wont know you that much and embarass ...
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tease test
this happned to me. the guy and i were messing around in school and when we ...
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Tell your Friend
Tell your friend to tell your attraction's best girlfriend that you like her. ...
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the 'bend and snap!!!'
this tip came from the movie legally blonde. what you do is pretend to drop ...
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the flicking of the hair
(for girls only) walk past him then turn around but flick your hair while your ...
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THE PECK!
WHEN HE'S NOT LOOKING,GET REALLY CLOSE TO HIS FACE, RELL HIM TO TURN AROUND AND ...
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The perfume is the key
Well wear a body spray or deodrant that smell gorg. It works trust me bvecause ...
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The Triangle Glance
When your talking to your crush, look from his/her right eye to his/her left ...
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Three L's- -> Look-Laugh-Look
first... look at your crush and make eye contact. then turn back to your ...
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To Boys: Some Exceptions
I just read a tip that said girls love when you wear cologne' HA! There are ...
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Touch
say you are both doing some sort of activity together, innocently let your ...
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Touch your Face
You want to draw attention to your face and eyes, so occasionally smooth the ...
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tounge game!
when they look at you poke your tounge out and if they play on start smiling ...
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Try a Wink
To send a message to someone you´re flirting with, give a wink. A wink is as ...
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try to not to smile and talk at the same time
this tip is for peaple who just started flirting. Dont smile and talk at the ...
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tuch of the leg
when sat near to your flirt touch his leg smile and look away trust me it will ...
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Use His / Her Name
A name is a very personal thing, it's something each of us is trained to ...
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Walk With Them
If your still in school, between grades 6-9, try walking with them to classes, ...
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Walk, Laugh, Shoulder,Wink!
Ok, this tip only works if you guys are already good friends. Walk by your ...
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wen he cums bak 2 his m8ts...
wen ur guyz gone off sumwer, go 2 his m8ts n talk n stuff..den wen ur crush ...
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what to do when your crush knows u lyk him and u want attention from him
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what to do with your lips....4 girls
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when talking to a gurl
always look in her eyes dont get close tho u might scare her..then look away ...
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when u 2 are walking
When both of you are walking - especially on an empty street - casually start ...
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While laying down
ok, ur @ ur friends house, or, perhaps, ur crushes house, && ur laying down on ...
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working the eye contact
if you are near your crush at any time just look out of the corner of your eye ...
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Works Everytime Flirting Tips For Guys
i'm a girl, when my boyfriend does these to me they always work. When u and ...
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You Dropped Something!
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