How do I correct a lie?

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I recently met this girl online in a chat room and we really hit it off. We've been talking on the phone everyday for a week now and I really like her alot. My problem is that when we first met online I was using a false name because I didn't want everyone to know my real name. Anyway, she now believes this to be my name because I was to embarassed to admit that I was using a false name, and the longer we went on talking the harder it became to tell the truth. I really want to tell her the truth and it is eating me up inside. How do I tell her without her getting really upset. I would hate for this to ruin what we have started. Please help.




Our Suggestion:
No way you can do anything but tell her the truth asap.

Describe how embarrassed you are and how difficult it was to tell her that you had been using a false name and it just kept getting worse and worse.

If she has a good heart she will forgive you and if she doesn't have a good heart then who needs her?

Good luck! George

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