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Ok, This is a long story but i am going to try to make it as short as possible. Note that she is Popular & I am Not so attracting.

I have liked this girl for a Year Now... Since 5th grade... I got to know her in 5th grade, It went well. I Asked her if she would go out with me after a week. She said ''She had just broke up with her boyfriend that same day & That she wanted time to recuparate''. I said ''Ok'' That day I became a complete idiot and told people i was going out with her...(Don't ask why) Anyways, She got mad...I screwed up there.... I tried to clear things up...Talking & Stuff like that... Then I though The world was going to fall apart around me...Some kid told her i wanted to get into her pants... That was the lowest point of my life. She got REALLY MAD & At one point was going for Sexual Harrasment. That fell though & She stood on Neutral grounds with me as i tried to become her friend again...At one point i pulled through that... But the way i did it is i bought her stuff... Thats NOT what i wanted... Anyways, I have been working on a Relashonship Since then with her...We are good friends now...She gives me Hugs & Stuff like that...But Like i said I am not the most atrractive guy there...I am a LOW side of Atractivity...I'm not a person that so ugly that i got hit by an Ugly stick...BUT, I am not the greatist.... So to the question... I want to make my Move this year, BUT I AM SO nervous that she will say ''No''. She will i can tell you that...But i come to you guys because you are people that do these jobs. I hope that you can help....Thanx...PEACE.




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Girls want more than just good looks.

They are looking for someone they can trust, someone they can share feelings with, and someone who cares for them. Good lucks are a plus, of course.

But you can make up for that by working out and maybe joining a sports team.

Another thing you can do is study hard and get good grades. All these things attract people to each other.

Wait a while and then tell her you are developing feelings for her and ask her how she feels. You might be pleasantly surprised.

Good luck! George

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