How to tell? Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: i am a girl and i have fallen in love with one of my best friends (who also happens to be a girl). i've always considered myself to be staraight, until now, but I find myself thinking about her all the time. as far as i can tell, she is straight, as well, but lately she seems to have similar feeling about me, but i can't tell. she kisses me on the cheek, sits on my lap, and always tells me how "cute" i am etc. etc. but she usually only acts like that when we're hanging out with a group. when it's just the two of us, she's alot more subtle and it confuses the hell out of me...how do i figure out how she really feels about me without actually asking her? Our Suggestion: Instead of asking her direclty, ask her how she feels about lesbianism in general. You might be able to tell by her answer how she feels. Or it may lead to a conversation ending with you two. After that you could tell her that you have been developing feelings toward her and ask how she feels about it. It will be a lot easier on her to reply to what you say rather than to have to a direct question. Good luck! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes