I found out he lied about being married! Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: I was lied to pretty badly, and I really cared for him. All I can say now is that Im in shock. He even lied about his real name so I wouldn't figure it out. He was a busy medical intern who had little time as he was doing his residency---and well I was lonely and wanting to date someone new. He would always come over to my house, and I really felt like he cared for me and yet there was always something holding him back. Turns out he showed up one day with his real name on a name badge and the cat was out of the bag. I am so upset. Should I tell his wife? Im not even sure how to react. I feel she deserves to know!! I haven't been so conned in all my life.. He ended up having three kids, and really manipulated me. I think he did this before because he is such a good liar. There seems to be no clear right or wrong way to handle this. But I feel like I should warn his wife. Confused in Cal. OH,and btw, Im 33. thanks.. Our Suggestion: You will have to decide whether to tell his wife or not. It is impossible to determine whether it will cause more good or ill. Your gut reaction is to tell her so do what your feelings tell you. Good luck! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes