Why have I become so crazy?

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Ok me and my boyfriend have been together off and on for a little over 2 years. I'm 17 almost 18 and he's 19 and 1/2. I love him to death and he loves me to death. He has cheated on me 2 times with 2 differnt girls with sex. Spread apart in time also. I know he regrets it but still. So obviously i took him back both times because im with him now. He is also a big flirt. I obviously have trust and insecurity issues because of it but I got past these issues a while ago with him. But lately, like the past 2-3 weeks, i have been overly jealous and insecure, i mean really bad where ive been crying when nothing really bad is going on, i checked his email once, which i regret and im causing drama that is hurting our relationship and it seems hard for me to control these emotions. I've been all through this site and got lots of good good advice and i take it to heart and it has helped somewhat but is this a health problem? lol. I thought i might be pregnant but i was on time for everything and P.M.S doesnt last this long lol. Thanks for your help!

-Brittany




Our Suggestion:
You may be having bad responses to his cheating... sort of backflashes.

Or maybe he is displaying behavior that reminds you (subconsciously) of what he did before.

Talk this over with him in a gentle loving way and that should increase your feelings of trust.

Good luck! George

--Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com




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