my friend and I like the same guy Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: My friend and I don't usually discuss who we like, and I always try to hide it, just cause I'm pretty shy. A lot of guys obsess over her, and guys like me too, but they don't obsess. We both have some guy friends who weren't more than friends, and I'm almost positive that she likes one of them. Unfortunately, I happen to like him too. I don't want to compete with her over a guy, but I wasn't sure that I wanted to just stand back, either. Well he talked to me and asked if he could trust me, and then told me that he liked her. I asumed that that was the time to back off no matter what, so I did. But is there anything I can do different in the future, that might make things better? My friend and I often like the same guys. Our Suggestion: The answer is to share the pool of guys. You both seem to be attractive and guys like you. You should take the ones that like you and she takes the ones that like her. There's not a whole lot more you can do except talk with your friend and decide who likes who more. Good luck! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes