Should I ask him out?

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I have lived next to my neighbor guy for almost three years now. He is really great guy. If I had to pick his best trait his looks and his personality would tie for first. I see him about every day outside when I am watering my flowers, playing with my kids etc. We often make small talk which is quietly uncomfortable. Neither of us is in a relationship right now. He is the shy type and I have waited for him to ask me out...with no results. It is hard to know whether he is just not interested or is just too shy. Should I take a chance and ask him out? I can handle him saying "no"...but I do live next door to him, so if things don't work out then it will always be uncomfortable.




Our Suggestion:
You should take the chance and ask him out. If you don't take chances you will lead a blah life.

Even if he says no, you can avoid future discomfort by always saying hi and trying to get at least a short conversation going.

Good luck! George

--Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com




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