Confused and Hurt Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: I started dating a guy this winter. One thing led to another and, before I knew it, we were forming quite the bond. Not wanting to get hurt, I did rarely called, emailed, or intiated contact - it was all him. This lasted 5 months, when suddenly he called it off saying that he did not want a serious relationship. This was shocking, since he seemed VERY into me. A few days ago, we talked about what happened - it has been 2 months since it ended. He said that he was developing feelings for me and becoming emotionally attached and did not want to be in a serious relationship, so he pulled out. What should I do? I miss him terribly and I am confused. Why, if everything is going GREAT, would he pull away so fast? Our Suggestion: You didn't actively respond to him when you where dating. You expected him to do all the calling, etc. Naturally this made him feel nervous and he reacted by backing off from you. If you want him back, you should start doing some of the contacting so that he knows you are into him too. Good luck! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes