What do I do next? Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: I have been seeing a girl who just got out of a bad relationship. The same thing is true of me. Everything was going fine for 1 month, she set a crazy pace of calling me everday and texting me 4-5 times a day. After a month we slept together 3 times. Then she told me she was concerned it was only about sex. I assured her it was not and tried to take her on a date, which she then replied "I don't know if I want to date you." Then she stopped calling as much. Only texts me now for the most part, still responds to all my calls and assures me everything is fine, but she hasn't seen me in 2 weeks despite my repeated attempts. I am not sure how to approach this situation now.. should I back off and not call her for awhile? Or what is your advice on the best way to simply figure out what she wants.. because asking her doesn't work. Our Suggestion: My advice is to back off and see what she does. If she doesn't call then write her off as a misadventure. There is no way to find out what's bugging her except to ask... but she isn't answering, so not much you can do. Good luck! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes