When should I make a move Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: I have been with my boyfriend two and a half years and have been engaged for 5 months. we live together own animals together and were practically married. He suddenly decided I am too controlling and he doesnt think he has the feeling he should have for me if we are going to get married. He says we are through, but I want to know what I should do now. I want to talk to him and find out what is really going on but people keep telling me to wait or to call and I dont want to make him mad. What do I do? Our Suggestion: Let him know that you still care for him and are waiting. Ask him if you could call him once a week for 15 mins just to see how he is doing. Don't talk about your relationship just be cheerful. He certainly won't feel like you are controlling him... and you will be learning how to be less controlling. Expect this to go on for a month or so before making any decisions. Good luck! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes