Closure after 40 years Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: I left my first lover after argument about being able to trust her. 40 years ago. The pain was immense for good reason. I moved on, had other girlfriends, got married, have good marriage. Keep in touch with other girlfriends. By change ran into her parents, who gave my her phone number in different state. She is married and has grown children. This has brought back the painful memories and I wanted to contact here to apologize for argument and resolve why we broke up. I am not afraid to contact here, don't know how to approach her. Our Suggestion: It is often awkward to contact a very old companion... especially one where there was conflict involved. Call her up and flat out tell her why you are calling and say what you have to say about what happened. Most likely she will say that she is happy you called and happy to hear what you said. That's about what you want to hear... right? Good luck! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes