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Visitor's Question:
i have been sleeping with a man who says he doesnt know what he wants. he says we are friends. we also had a baby together,but he isnt committing to me at all. I have no idea how he feels about me. I love him.Normally does a man have sex with a women for a year if he didnt care about her and wasnt attracted to her or even in love with her? or does he probably care?




Our Suggestion:
You would think that after all this time and having the baby that he would have strong feelings towards you.

For your own sense of well being, you should set a date in your mind for when you are going to tell him to put up or shut up. It might be a month from now, six months from now, or a year from now. But you need to have closure at some point.

You might even tell him now that at some point you want closure-- either a commitment on his part or a parting of the ways. You deserve this and not to be held dangling indefinetely.

Good luck! George

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