what to do about his past Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: pleas help me!!!!!!!! my boyfriend has had sex with 4 other girls before he even met me he also had done very heavy drugs and now still has cravings for meth. we are talking very seriously about getting married but thinking about his past hurts me soooo bad. i want to be with him mor that anything in my life i just dont no what to do. please help me. thanks so much. Our Suggestion: You can't do anything about his past except get over it. Just think, it could be YOU who had this sexual experience and it could be HE who is worried about it. In reality it is of no concern. What matters is the present and future. Drugs, however, is a serious matter and you should not think about getting married until he has proven that he can do without for a year. If he truly cares about you it will be easier for him to do without drugs. Good luck! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes