What do I do? Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: Me and my ex were together for 4 years and we have a son. He broke it off for no reoson. He came back, but I got scared he was gonna dump me again, so I told him that. 3 Days later he had someone new. She is fun and don't have any responsibility, that makes it hard cause he is having a good time with her.But I know she is just the rebound. I want him back, not just for me but for our son. I love him, but is love enough? How do I make him see he belongs with us and not this new girl? He shuts me out and does not want to speak to me about anything but our son. How do I get him back? Our Suggestion: Tell your ex that it is going to be very difficult for your son to be apart from his father. And, if he doesn't come back, that you will have to find a new father for his son. Tell him that you would prefer that he come back to you but that is his choice. Just lay it out on the line for him. Either he comes back or he will be seeing less of his son. It's not a threat but just a fact of life. Good luck! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes