Girlfriend cheated on me

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ok I have a big problem. my girlfriend and i are both 16 Just this last monday i was sitting on the couch with my girlfriend(of 5 months now) and she started crying...she told me that at the beginning of our relationship she had meet up with her ex boyfriend(whom she was with for 2 years) she told me he kissed her and she didnt stop him. she was horribly sorry and i understood...she didnt know what she really wanted...so i thought

Then...2 days later i was at school and her 3 best friends came up to me and told me that it wasnt the whole story...her friends thought it was right i knew the truth...apparently she had done it 6-8 time throughout our relationship and he fingered her on one occasion...later that night i called her and she came over... she finally admited to it...it was so close to ending that night but in my opinion everybody disirves a second chance...now ive lost many friends because i forgave her...she was so sorry...we sat on the couch for 5 1/2 hours as she cried telling she was sorry the whole time...we have planned on the next time we are together we are going to talk...

my question is should i break up with her or not? is my opinion stupid...that everyone should get a second chance? what the hell should i do?!?!
i know this is long i tried shortening it. thanks for your help




Our Suggestion:
I'm sorry to say this but you should probably dump her.

You've been going out for five months and during that time she cheated 6-8 times. That's almost once every two weeks.

If it was once or twice maybe... but 6-8 times is too much.

It sounds like she has no self-restraint.

Good luck! George

--Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com




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