She's Jealous of my Manager Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: My girlfriend thinks that I am cheating on her with a manager that I work with, I have told my girlfriend that there is nothing between me and this manager. What can I do to help our relationship go more smoothly? Our Suggestion: One of the nasty things you discover about jealousy is that it's nearly impossible to "fix" from the outside. She's jealous because she feels insecure. She thinks if you find someone else that is "better than her" that you'll desert her. So right now it's your manager. Next week it'll be someone else. And since the problem is not YOU - it's HER - no matter what you do, she'll just keep finding new people to worry about. Read through my pages on Jealousy - http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/howto/jealousy/index.asp and try to help her understand that she is WORTHY OF LOVE. That's what it comes down to. If she feels she DESERVES you, she will feel satisfied that you will stay with her, just as she knows she will stay with you. But as long as she keeps thinking you deserve better, she's going to assume that any girl you are talking to that SEEMS better is going to steal you away. --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes