Take my time or seize the day? Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: I really like this guy. I think he likes me but he is taking time to show it. He's 40. I'm 33. He never asked me out on a formal date. It has just been to have a drink or have some ice-cream after our evening class. When he does this, we aren't alone, a couple other people will join us. Finally I asked him out to join me with my friends, he was like, "Yes!Yes!I would love to!" We had a nice time. My problem is, we only see each other in class--which I'm not taking now. I said I would like to join a yoga class he goes to--but that is almost two months away. I e-mailed him a couple times, once to send a Christmas greeting. He hasn't asked me out. It has almost been a month since we saw each other. The class is another month away. Is that too long a wait? I still like him, I don't want him to find someone else. But I want to give him space too. I don't want to be too needy and keep e-mailing him. What should I do? Is he waiting for me to arrange a date? Am I putting too much thought on this? Our Suggestion: If you really like the guy, take the advice I gave you the last time you wrote in. Ask him out dutch treat to a nice restaurant. Flirt along the lines I mentioned and see what develops. Good luck and Happy Holidays! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes