Girlfriend danced with other men,

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it all started when my girlfriend said she wanted to go dancing and i said " i dont like dancing" i said that about 20 times to her to get the point across finally she gets her friend to go with her line dancing. she said "if you dont go i am going to dance with other guys.So she goes and i saty home because im to shy to dance and i dont like social events with drunk people.

so she danced with 5 guys, slow danced with 3 and freaked danced with 2 . one dance was with her body faced out and the guy comes up behind her and grabs her hips and goes with the music with my girlfriend butt right in front or even sometimes touching his crotch for like 5min

i got upset, she said i have no right because i did not go with her.she ended up saying she will not dance with another guy again...

but it is still bothering me, i cant even listen to rap music because all it reminds me of is my girlfriend butt rubbing a mans crotch

Should i be upset?? is she wrong?? or am i for being this upset?




Our Suggestion:
Freak dancing is normal nowadays.

You must not have known that since you are so upset about it.

Now that she is not going out dancing anymore, you should forget about it and chalk it up to experience.

Good luck! George

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