The First Time Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: Do you bleed when you first have sex? Our Suggestion: Maybe, maybe not. I just answered this question for someone else :) What causes that bleeding is the ripping of the hymen, a thin membrane (thin like your eyelid) that covers part or all of a girl's opening. That tissue gets broken by TONS of things naturally. You can break it riding a horse, riding a bike, using a tampon, you name it. It is super strong in some girls, rather weak in other girls. So what might break it for one girl wouldn't necessarily break it for another. A doctor could tell you if it was broken or not, but really it doesn't matter at all in any real sense. Even some girls who have it don't notice at all when it breaks during their first sexual encounter, because it is so thin and it just doesn't bleed much. So it's not like it "proves anything" to have it or not have it rip. --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes