Help! Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: Ok me and my guy have been together for almost 4 months. And he knows how insecure I am with like everything sexual, and well, he goes behind my back and watches porn, and like it seems he wants me to be like them girls. And today for example, he had it on the computer, I found it he was looking at it today, and I found it after we did stuff.... I know he does it cos I'm not there, but how can I get over it? Our Suggestion: Two ways to deal with porn. One is to enjoy it with him-- but, you say you are not into it. This is not unusual for a woman to dislike porn. So this way is not going to work for you. Second is to realize that a lot of guys are into porn and your BF is one of them. So you are stuck dealing with something you don't like. You can also give him an ultimatum telling him to quit it or your leaving him. Good luck! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes