she loves me but denies it..Suggest AdviceDo you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: hi guys! i feel at home here.. i loved this girl for 5 years, before i cud express it , another guy proposed her, i tried to forget it but i was unable to, in fact i started loving her more and more. she broke up with him after 1 year. they hardly saw each other or spoke to eachother in that one year, theylived in two corners of the country. i finally told her.. we made out... i havent had anything like it before. it was pure it wasn't sex. it was something more higher.. i never had an orgasm never cared too... but i made sure she was comfortable and she had one everytime..i kissed her like i wud want to merge with her body... be one. in that moment we were. but then after one and a half years he came back. she took him back didnt even tell me a word. i know everything abt her so i was able to guess and confront and she confessed. she said it was only friendship me. i wasnt able to believe my ears. the thing is that she is going back to him cos of a guilt, she thinks she is responsible for the way his sucky life turned out. i m afraid that she will be pulled in it too.. i want her... i just cant think of anything else.. i just feel like dying... i have already developed a bipolar syndrome, the drugs dont work... i m going into complete frustration and depression.. pls help me... Our Suggestion: Since you are under a doctor's guidance I will only say a few things. A number of these symptoms could be the result of an unconscious desire to make your ex feel sorry for you and come back to you. This would be a perfectly normal reaction for you to have. Another thing to consider: she may tire of him and think back on the times with you as the best times. Not something you can put in the bank, but not out of the question either. I wish you the very best of luck! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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