its not that simple 2 Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: i talked to my mom and she told me what her sister did. and believe me its true this can ruin the name. how can i get closer to the guy without anyone even noticing thats the main problem. yeah he is really shy. i'm afraid if i don't get close to him without anyone noticing, or else he might think i don't like him and go after other girl. what would you do if u were me. yeah believe me it is really hard to thin what. waiting 4 ur ans thanx Our Suggestion: I'm sorry but I still don't buy the theory that talking to a boy will ruin your family name. And, how do you expect to let him know you like him without anyone finding out. You could give him a note but then what? He might show it to friends or tell them about it. But suppose he keeps it to himself, then what? He can't talk to you or your family name will be ruined. You are in a no-win situation. Ask your mother what you are asking me. She seems to be the one you are listening too... and that is a good thing. It is good to be able to talk with your mother. Good luck! George p.s. please don't ask questions more than once a week. Thanks :) --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes