After four months, change of heart? Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: My boyfriend and I have been together for about 4 months now. We've been very close for the past two years and share everything. You might think that its a wonderful thing to be so honest, but I was unprepared for what he told me last night. On the phone he mentioned to me that "he isn't used used to the way I make out". He is my first serious boyfriend and I am very unexperienced, both of which he knows. He tends to be pretty aggressive when kissing, and I know it's been difficult for me to know what to do. It just came to a shock that he hadn't mentioned anything before now. I asked him what he meant, but he wouldn't elaborate much. I am embarrassed to keeping pushing him and am incredibly anxious to keep making out with him. Any tips for talking about it openly, or improving the way we kiss to please him? Our Suggestion: Yes, this is definitely a topic to discuss gently in person alone. Maybe he wants you to be more aggressive with your tongue or maybe he wants to touch more parts of your body or you to touch him more intimately. The only way to know is to ask him. Ask him if it is any of the above. Good luck! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes