what do i do now? Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: hi well i finally kissed her (it was more of a peck on her lips) but i still feel extremely accomplished! and we love each other! and we r bf+gf! YAY but i have 2 problems. 1 is that her friends (2 of her friends) dont trust me and they think i am rushing things, that i use her as a trophy cuz i hav never had a gf before, and that i am a bitch 0.o i have tried 3 times to talk to them about it but they r being stubborn and wont believe me! and 2, i read that tip about telling her about touching each other, but i dont kno how to say it to her. so i have 2 questions 1- how do i gain her friends trust and approval of me? and 2- how should i tell her about the whole touching situation? (becuz i dont want to seem like im manipulating her, or seem like i am pressuring her or making her uncumfortable) Our Suggestion: 1. The friends: as long as your gf loves you and is getting along with you, her happiness will show through to her friends... so just give it time. 2. Be honest with her and say just what you said to me... that you want her to feel comfortable so she should make it clear if you do something that makes her uncomfortable. And likewise you share your feelings with her if something she is doing makes you uncomfortable. It doesn't have to just be touching, it could be attitudes, statements, jokes, etc. Glad you are making progress! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes