My girlfriend's grandmother thinks I'm a pervert

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Okay. I'm 15, and so is my girlfriend (of 3 1/2 weeks). We really like each other. We talk on the phone for hours on end about anything, things even as silly as houses, and still have a meaningful conversation. But she's on restriction, so her dad limits her time on the phone to 1 hour on Saturday and 1 hour on Sunday.

But a few days ago, I was on the phone with her and she was at her grandmother's house. We talked about a lot of stuff. And my friend was with me and we wanted to know if she shaved her... you know. It was a question my friend asked his girlfriend and got slapped in the face. I wanted to show him how much she trusts me. Anyway, what we didn't know is that her grandmother was listening to us on another phone in the house and heard us talking about it.

So now, she thinks I just want to have sex with her and she might spread the word to her parents. I know that her parents would like me if they got to know me (her dad and I have a lot in common) but they might think I'm a sexual predator or something. So... I don't really know what to do. Her dad won't let her do anything because she's on restriction until her grades get better.

Any advice?




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Not much really you can do.

Just hope that the grandmother keeps her mouth shut. She shouldn't have been listening on the phone anyway.

Feel lucky it wasn't her dad who was listening in.

Good luck! George

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