words or actions ...what to believe Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: My ex and I have been broken up for 9 months. However .. we still see each other... date ... talk on the phone. When we are together his actions say one thing and his words say the oppsit. for example.... he says that he doesn't love me, but he will make cd's of music i like... or give me a back rub. Which do I believe? What he says... or what he does? Our Suggestion: Love isn't always an "on/off" switch. It can sometimes be like a dimmer switch. Maybe sometimes he loves you and sometimes he doesn't. Or maybe he is somewhere in the middle. This might explain his behavior. You will have to figure out how to deal with it. Good luck! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes