trusting my gut

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i started dating this girl a few weeks ago. She is beautiful, smart and i get that feeling in my stomach when i think about her. The only problem is that she reminds me of an ex of mine. Not completely but a few characteristics do remind me of her. This particular ex hurt me pretty badly. So when i think about this new girl, I often feel like she is above me or she is going to hurt me or that I wont be able to roll with her. I know these are feelings of inadueqacy but my question is that is it all in my head? Should I trust my gut or should I just man up and enjoy what i have or what it could be? See where it goes? I'm usually pretty confident with women and have dated a lot. She just happens to be one the best girls i've come across in a long time and just so happens to remind of a girl i once knew. Should i just not date her and move on to something more comfortable? Advice? Thanks in advance. You guys are great!




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Give her more time and if the gut reaction is still there then find someone new. She sounds like a nice woman.

Good luck! George

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