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I've been dating this girl for about two months I really like her and want to make it work. Everything seemed to be going great. I told her that I don't want to know about her past and how I wouldn't like to meet anyone shes ever been with. she stayed quiet, and I said "I've already met one haven't I?" she said no, but I might in the future because they're really really good friends. she says it started as a friendship, then they had sex one day, after that they had sex whenever they wanted. till this day they remain close friends. "where there was a fire there's embers", so I've become a jealous paranoid freak. truthfully im uneasy about the whole situation, I don't know what to do and desperately need your advice. thank you.




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My advice is to break up with her.

You describe yourself as a "jealous paranoid freak" and that she is a "very, very good friend" of a guy she has had frequent sex with and who she continues to see.

Why put yourselves through agony trying to work this out when the odds are against it. Move on.

Good luck! George

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