Was he out of line? Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: Dear Romance Class: My fiance broke up with me over the phone just hours after he told me he loved me for the millionth time. He claimed that he thought it over, and "his jealousy issues could not cope with my being friendly with other people." He said he found that quality in me "untrustworthy." I am European and was raised that it is OK to hug everyone. It means nothing. I told him that, and that I was totally devoted to him. It wasn't good enough. I told him I would change. That wasn't good enough. We were so much in love! I don't understand. It's like he dropped a hand grenade into my heart. How can I get over this? Thank you Our Suggestion: Don't give up hope, if he just broke up with you he may come back. On the other hand you could take his behavior as a sign that he wasn't right for you. Imagine how bad you'd feel if he sprung this on you after you were married. You get over it by greiving for a while, doing things with friends, if you are religious talk with your pastor, go on a vacation, bury yourself in work, and eventually find yourself another guy. Yes he was out of line. He should have let you try to change. Sorry this happened to you! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes