i cheated..

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I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year, and I am completely head over hills in love with him. However, I found myself in a situation last night where I ended up sleeping with a close friend of mine. I don't know what it was, because I'm not attracted to this friend, but do find comfort in the way that he treats me. My boyfriend is the sweetest guy and I can't believe that I've done this, and now I just don't know what to do. I thought about telling him, but in the past he has said that if I ever cheated he would probably kill himself. I can't tell him because I know that he would leave me, and the thought of living without him is unbearable. I don't want to break up with him, but im going crazy with guilt. How can I possibly fix this without leaving my man?




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My advice is to keep quiet and hope he doesn't find out.

Your guilt feelings will die down as time passes... after all, this just happened last night.

Hopefully this turn out to be a life-time lesson to you about how easy it is to be led astray. You should be alert to circumstances when you might be tempted so that it never happens again.

Take the guilt feelings to be the payment you must make to atone for your wrong doing.

Good luck! George



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