He left for his ex... Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: How do I get my husband back after he left me for his ex girlfriend from twelve years ago? Everything was fine until this woman showed up with a purpose to break up my happy family. It is a textbook case of alienation of affection but I don't want to sue her because it would make him mad. Our Suggestion: Make sure he knows that you want him back. Otherwise he may think you are mad at him. Alienation of affection is not a law in most states so if you ever want to head in that direction make sure you know for sure. Take a look at: http://marriage.about.com/od/legalities/a/alienation.htm which says only eight states have such a law nowadays. There are no tried and true ways to get someone back after they leave you. Obvious things are keeping yourself attractive, don't beg but be clear that you still want them, and keep good relations with his relatives. Here are some more tips on getting someone back: http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveCat/9 Good luck! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes