I want to, but I get so nervous and so shy! Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: Hi there, I'm a fifteen-year-old girl and my boyfriend will be turning seventeen this year. We've been going out for just over two months now. Kissing is not really a problem for me. Yeah, we've french kissed and whatever already. He's touched me before, but not 'down there'. See, I want to be intimate with him (just on the touchy side. Sex is way too far). But I get so shy when he, for example, unclips my bra. I got really nervous when he put his hand down the front of my pants the one time. What can I do to get rid of the shy- and nervousness and feel more comfortable around my boyfriend? Our Suggestion: You are going to be nervous and shy the first few times any ways. So you might as well take some of the pressure away by taking the bull by the horns. Unclip your bra for him and offer him your breasts. It will be exciting and nerve wracking at the same time... but it will get you what you want. Same thing about your pants... take his hand and slide it down for him. Bye the way, he will be in seventh heaven when you do this. And you could be too! Good luck. George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes