Relax and quiet down Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: Hi, I'm a fifteen year old girl going out with a soon-to-be 17 year old guy. My guy feels me up often and I really enjoy it. He fingers me as well, usually with one figner, but sometimes two. When he starts, he often tells me to relax myself, 'cause I always end up pulling tight. How can I relax myself? It sometimes irritates the heck out of him that I can't seem to relax. Also, when we're intimate in the movies, he tells me to keep my moaning to a minimum. It's rather difficult on my part. Is there any way I can keep my moaning sounds down? Thanks for the help Our Suggestion: Perhaps pulling tight makes you feel better and enjoy the activity more. Explain that to him. It seems strange that he wants you to relax, but when you do relax and moan he wants you to stop that. He needs to realize that whatever you are doing is natural and you feel comfortable doing it. As far as moaning in the movies, he needs to reduce the degree of intimacy that is causing you to moan so loud. Good luck! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes