Fighting, Intimacy and Jealousy Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 18 too. He claims to be out of control with his hormones, which make him think of sex all the time, and he hates himself for it because he doesn't think that it's normal. He respects my boundaries, but we fight all the time about how he always wants to fool around and I don't. I never feel the want to fool around, which I find weird. There is also a girl at his school that always asks him to sleep over and hits on him. He told her that he doesn't trust himself to sleepover, and I don't think he would do anything. I just get so angry when he tells me that she asks him to sleepover and when she hits on him. [Im very glad at the same time that he doesnt hide it from me]. Lately I just feel like I'm always getting mad at him for stupid things like him not being able to go online because his brother has had the internet all day. I know this is long and there are many different topics in this like fighting, intimacy and jealousy, but I need some advice. Our Suggestion: If you could resolve the intimacy problem, the jealousy and fighting problems would hopefully go away. Many males turn off their mates by being too preoccupied with sex. And this is probably why you have little interest in sex yourself. If you are not doing so already, perhaps you should try to masturbate him with your hand. This should reduce his need for sexual activities. Make him promise to talk with you before sex for at least a half hour. Talk about nice things like future plans and friends. This might relax you. Also, let him know about your period and that at certain times he should not try to be sexual. Finally, let him know what pleases you. Maybe it is when he softly kisses your ear and says "I love you" or something else you might enjoy. Your jealous feelings seem normal. Ask him to tell her to stop saying what she is saying because it is causing bad feelings between you. Tell him you will feel better about fooling around if he does that. Once these two problems are solved, I'll bet that the fighting will be greatly reduced. Good luck! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes