should i still date him knowing it cant last? Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: i just found out my boyfriend has heartfailure and isnt expected to live to be 30....i love him and wanted to have a family with him but knowing he may die before im 25 leaves me wondering if i should date him and look into marrage or tell him i cant because of his heart....but i think that will leave me guilty...please i need some advice!... Our Suggestion: First off, you need to get some good advice from your parents and church advisors. Then consider this, continue to go out with him but make it clear that you can't consider marriage because of his health. This will probably mean that after a while you will split up. That might be better than just splitting up right now. Good luck! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes