I know its long i just Really REALLY want her back &hearts.

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Well me and this girl have been talking when we first met and all but,she had a boyfriend when we were talking so i just figured to be just friends and thats what we were and so she started to trust me really REALLY well and like she told me she did not seem to like him as much and she told me she started feeling felling's for me . And i told her i felt the same .[i don't have a girlfriend at this time]
So i started telling her just to break up with him and like she said it was not that easy and i knew it wasent but i had to push her because it just wasent right .[they have been together for 1yr and 5 months]
when i see her around my schools campus she never was happy around him so i told her i noticed that also so a week later she took my advice and did it . and we started dating two days later w/out any1 knowing it . but one week pasted every1 knew it i know it was obvious .i wanted to tell every1 [HEr]not so much . well her ex was pissed but never did any thing .but my main point is she left me two weeks after i asked her out and b4 these time i have been a lier a heart breaker but i have changed my ways for her and she knows that .='[ right now we talk and i tell her i miss her she dosent seem to care because when her and her ex started going back out i never spoke to her i ignored everything completely she embaressed me . But her and her ex dident last for two days .She cried to me and yes i did support her and thats when we started talkking and now when i tell her i miss her & want her back she says ..."i think were better as friends ". but i dont belive that because we had went to the movies and had kissed during the movie [not going out] and i asked her and told her this stuff the next day and her response is that shes not in a mood to talk about it shes stressed

- Can you HELP ME !!!!




Our Suggestion:
She is stressed out because she is going from boy to boy too fast.

Try becoming her close friend again and perhaps the old feelings will come back again. Don't push her too fast.

Give her plenty of time to overcome her feelings for her old boyfriend. She is probably feeling guilty about leaving him.

Time will tell.

Good luck! George

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