How can I be her bf??

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Umm, where do I start? well, I´m eighteen and the girl I like is 15.
We´ve been good friends for about 2 years now, she´s told me everything & me her. To start with I didn´t have any feelings towards her, but now I do. I´ve realized that she´s my type of person, I feel comfortable around her (not like with other girls) and her around me.
Once before she asked me who I liked and I said that I liked her, but she said no (so then I said that I was joking because I didn´t want to lose her as a friend).She´s always had bad luck with boys, and me with girls (they´ve cheated on me)and we have so much in common.
She´s even asked me face to face if i liked her, & when I was going to say yes I heard her saying stuff like "I love you but only as a friend" and stuff like that.
People even say that we would make a great couple, but gods knows.
Could you direct me in the right path?? (and please don´t say: you´ve gotta talk to her and let her know how you feel etc. Because it´s not easy and I definetly wouldn´t) I was thinking of telling one of her friends so she could mention something.
What do you think??

Thanks alot!!!
Robert




Our Suggestion:
You anticipated my first answer which is to talk with her and tell her your feelings. That is what a good relationship is about. If you can't do it now, make it a goal to improve your communications.

But since you don't have the courage to do it yourself, perhaps your idea will work out ok. Get a friend to tell her how you feel.

Good luck! George

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