can i trust him?

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I have been married for over 10 years, last year i found out my husband had been texting and talking to another women. I asked him about her and he said that she was just a friend. I had never heard about her from him before this. He told me not to worry. Just recently, I found a text from her saying he was late on their morning text.. This really bothers me, i've never been jealous of his female friends, but this feels different. Do i trust him when he says shes just a friend? and how do i approach it without making it sound like i dont trust him?




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Any time two people have a relationship there is a chance it could spark into a romance.

My advice is to ask him how she is doing every other day. That should take the "mystery" out of the texting. Often it is the adrenalin rush that keeps these things going.

Ask where she lives, what she does for a living, is she married, kids, how old etc. As you become part of the relationship he may tire of her.

Good luck! George

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