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Hey, I am a pretty woman after all the weight loss. and several men have shown an interest. but I am someone who will become quite attached to one man once every few years and no one else. It's the way I am and I can't change that. I have started to like an Irishman who is living in Australia, more than I expected to. I am wondering how to stop myself from becoming too interested? I feel that he might return to Ireland in 2 years time, as he has said that he will stay for another year. He has spoken about taking things to the next level. but also said he misses his family and country. I've never felt this way before. it happened unexpectedly and I am wondering if I should take a chance or stay away. I will miss him if he leaves.

K




Our Suggestion:
Why not take the chance?

Maybe he will want to return to Ireland in two years... that is a long time from now... and maybe by then you will want to go there with him. Or maybe he will love you so much he will want to stay permanently with you.

There are too many maybe's to foresee what is best to do.

But if you are uncomfortable with unknowns and prefer someone more predictable, you should probably stay away from him.

Good luck! George

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