Final Contact with an Ex Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: Hi there... I have been separated from an ex for going on 1 1/2 years... For the last year I reached out 4X with no luck through 2 texts, a nice letter and a voicemail...They were all nice and pressure-free I havent tried anything in 5 months and her birthday is coming up soon and I want to try ONE LAST time to reach out to her. I dont believe in email and I dont think I have the nerve to call her. So I have narrowed it to either one last birthday text just "wishing her well and telling her I'm thinking of her" OR sending her a birthday card in the mail stating the same thing. Do you suggest one or the other? Or would you try something different? This is the last attempt so I want to make it count. I would appreciate feedback! Our Suggestion: I would definitely send a real life birthday card. People save and treasure physical items. I know many people who still have the birthday cards they were sent in high school, because they mean so much to them. So send her a card, and tuck in a little something, like an origami crane or something like that. Something tangible. That way she has something to remind her of you and to read and re-read. Who knows, she might finally be ready to start up a friendship with you, and rebuild the relationship. --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes