I Like Him, Now What

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Visitor's Question:
I have liked this guy for 3 years and I just recently told him that i like him.. and he says he's not avoiding me but it seems like he is... he has had a lot going on. I'm just nervous. I mean i really like him a lot and i wanna be with him.




Our Suggestion:
It's usually not a good idea to assault a guy and say "Hah! I like you! What are you going to do now!" It's a very confusing way to approach a relationship.

The best relationships are based on strong friendships which grow strongly, not things that are launched on the other person like a frontal assault. I have advice on building that romance here -

http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/howto/friendlover.asp

but it should definitely be gradual!

--Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com




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