Long Distance Love

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Visitor's Question:
I think my ex still loves me but is put off because her family is spliting up and that I'm quite a long distance away now. I visited her a week or so ago and stayed for a little while. We where very intimate with each other but I had to leave. A few days later she broke up with me.

I still love her and just don't know what to do. I don't want to hurt her but I do want to be with her because we make each other very happy. I just need some help. Thanx




Our Suggestion:
It is REALLY hard having a long distance relationship and it needs to have a solid commitment from both people involved. I have tips on it here -

http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveCat/54711

I would start by just asking to stay friends with her. No stress or pressure. That lets you stay in touch and keep things going on a friendship level. See how things go and maybe she will realize after a few months that this WILL work out between you two. But you have to show her that, you can't just "tell her" it will work.

--Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com




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