He's Cheating and Lying Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: My boyfriend just told me about a couple of months ago that he cheated on me with an old friend. he said he didn't have sex with her but i had asked what he did and he said that he stuck just the head of the penis? was it sex? also he has cheated multiple of times and currently he hasn't done any cheating lately. if he starts up again how do i go about dealing with it? Our Suggestion: Talk about a sleaze!! Cheating is about BETRAYING YOUR PARTNER whether it is kissing, oral sex or anything else. If he put his HEAD in her she could have gotten pregnant! He could have gotten a sexual disease, given it to you and then you could have been incredibly ill or even killed! And then he wasn't even going to tell you until many months later, when maybe it would have been too late? This is NOT a guy to keep. Relationships are about honesty and trust and believing in each other. Unless he goes to therapy and really understands what he did was wrong, he is going to keep doing it whenever he wants. And you are the one who is going to suffer. --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes