He Couldn't Handle the Long Distance Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: I meet a guy when I went back home this summer, and we fell in love. I came back to where I live. We stayed together for 5 months then he said that he can't handle the distance and everything. The problem is that I really love him, and all his friends are telling me that he cares for me alot. We broke up like 3 weeks ago, and we havn't talked since. And I can't get over him. What should I do? Our Suggestion: A long distance relationship is REALLY hard to maintain, and often times it fails. The things that make a relationship work - shared lives, shared intimacy, the constant give-and-take, are just missing in long distance. Yes, he cares for you, but he wants to have a real life relationship. He wishes it could be with you, but apparently it can't be. If you were together for 5 months it's going to take more than a few hours to get over him! It can easily take weeks if not a month or two. Give yourself time to heal. I have advice here - http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveSCat/54875 Of course if you want to consider moving to be near him as a solution, that's an option too! But you should think VERY seriously about the consequences of something that drastic. Moving to be with someone can work out wonderfully - or it can be incredibly stressful and fail miserably. --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes