She Broke Up for No Reason Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: My girlfriend just broke up with me a day ago after being together for 4 months. I still love her and she says she still loves me, but she broke up with me because she was scared to have a long relationship. I really want her back. How can I get her to go out with me again. Our Suggestion: It sounds like you really have to sit down and have a talk with her. *Something* was bothering her about the relationship. It's not like you had an expiration date on you! Why did she choose to break up with you this week and not a month ago or not a month in the future? Something was bothering her enough to have her call it quits. Yes it may be hard for her to put it into words but it is critical for BOTH of you that she learns to do this. A relationship is all about trust and communication. She needs to trust that you will be there for her. You need to trust her to tell you what she is feeling. Most people search for years to find someone they are comfortable with. She's going to have to learn how to handle that close feeling. Or is she going to just keep switching from boyfriend to boyfriend every 3 months for her entire life? --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes