Regaining Romance in a Marriage Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: What do you do when you're not getting what you need romantically from your marriage? I want to fix it but I don't know how. I really just feel like I don't get very much sexual attention unless it's "hey wanna do it?" Our Suggestion: Just about all relationships have the passion fade over time. It's a normal part of life. If the hormones and passion stayed at top level the entire time, you would burn out! But it does lead to people wanting to rekindle the romance after a while. That is why there are so many 'romantic getaways' hotel specials going on all the time. I have a lot of tips on rebuilding the love here - http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveCat/8723 it is something you have to work on. Nothing in life is just handed to you on a silver platter. If you want more romance, you need to put time and effort into it. Make a romantic dinner. Light some candles. Watch a romantic movie together. Make a chocolate fondue and feed each other strawberries. It's not going to just happen on its own. You have to create the atmosphere for it to work. If it feels silly, just keep at it. The point is to get to the point where it DOESN'T feel silly to feel romantic. --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes