He Was Fine - Now We Fight Constantly Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: i am a pregnant 20 yr. old dating a 44 yr. old everything was great in the begining but now that im pregnant, everything has been going wrong. i really want things to work but im not sure if it is worth it. lately we fight all the time. not a day goes by that we dont. he also tells me that if i want things to work there is no such thing as 50/50 everything goes his way or else im out. he was never like this please help me i cant get upset anymore i have to stay healthy for the baby Our Suggestion: There is as you know a huge age difference between 20 and 44. I really imagine that all he wanted out of this relationship was a fun roll in the hay with a young woman's body, and once you actually got pregnant it involved another level of commitment he had no interest in. Like you said, he wants to keep you like a pet, to be at his beck and call. I honestly suggest you break it off with him and talk to your friends and family to set up a support net. If he's like this even before the baby is born and you guys consider marriage, he is only going to get worse. You're way too young to turn into someone's slave. --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes