He's Lying about his Female Friends

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Visitor's Question:
I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. The relationship was going good until about a 10 months into it. He met some new "friends" that happen to be girls.

Every since then I had to deal with them driving his car, calling his room leaving seducive messages, disrespecting me, and him going to visit them all of the time staying there really late. I have talked to him about it and told him how I feel. But yet he still does it.

Then just yesterday I caught him in a lie when he was really up there seeing them, but lied to me and said he was working late. What should I do?

Our Suggestion:
Having female friends is one thing. Lying about what you are doing is completely another. Have a serious talk with him. Tell him that he is not respecting you and that if he's not ready for a monogamous relationship, you need to find someone who is. I know it's hard, but there's no way to force him to behave. If he simply isn't mature enough to behave, it's best that you leave and find someone who is.

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